Aged like a fine wine


Alright, alright, alright. If you said that the way a certain man says it you rock. And strawberry wine is good!!!! Probably basic but good.

I want to talk about maturity. Noticed I didn't say age, I said maturity.

You can be 25 and have the maturity of a 45 year old. And you can be 45 and have the maturity of a twelve year old.

I don't know if I need to explain this, but I guess I should.

Maturity: the quality or state of being mature

I defined it for a reason. I'm not saying that anyone is stupid, but I think we forget what the word truly means. I had to go look it up myself. LOL

Some people on dating sites are not there for games. They are there to make a connection. Notice I didn't just say women. And I also didn't say relationship. Sometimes we make a connection with someone and figure out that it's better to stay friends. And the fact that two people can come to that understanding mutually, that's maturity.

I know I'm not the best looking girl in town. In fact in Vegas you need to be a model to find a guy. It's disheartening. But I've had guys message me on dating sites and if I'm not interested I say so. Maturity is when they say okay and thanks for responding. What is immature is when I say I'm not interested and wish them luck in their search and they proceed to call me names and such.

Word of advice, if a girl says no, just leave it as such. Thank her for replying and move on. There is no need to call her anything. It's a rejection, it happens. Get over it and keep trucking.

That's the thing about maturity.

Last piece of advice and I'll go into later on, don't say you want a nice girl and when one messages you, you turn her down. More explanation later.


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