Why don't you stay?

I don’t think I will ever understand people and I’m getting a degree in sociology. It amazes me at the lies people can tell. But maybe it shouldn’t.

Let’s go back to the beginning. Again!

Why are you on an online dating site? What are your intentions? Are you looking for love or a hookup?

Tinder or OKCupid? Ashley Madison or Sugar Daddy?

I don’t feel like these are hard questions to answer. I state exactly what I’m looking for and still I get the ones that have less than great intentions.

And if I message you and we start talking, maybe you should be upfront. Don’t get mad and call me a fat b!@$h just because I ask you what you are looking for. That happens all the time. I'm used to it by now. But I know there are some of you that would be offended, and should be. But don't ever argue with someone that does that, just let it go.

Another stupid question is “Are you single?”

Then again maybe this should be asked more. To me, if I’m married I wouldn’t be on a dating site. But my morals and values must be different, just like this guy.

So the reason for the song, she's the other woman, he's been lying to her and she finally figures out that she doesn't need him and so yeah, just stay where you are.

Before you make an account, ask yourself why you are doing it. Please, if you are married, take a look at your relationship and what is leading you to cheat. Maybe you and your spouse need counseling. Start here.

I’m a hopeless romantic, and I believe there is someone out there for everyone, maybe just not me. But that’s ok. I just want people to be able to use different sites and not have to wade through douchebags and liars. The ones that really piss me off are not only the married ones, lying to their wives, but the ones that say they are military when they clearly are not. And watch out for scammers.

Some day your prince will show up. And you'll get to live in your castle.

I hope you find the love of your life. Be safe while doing it. Not all the guys on those sites are horrible people, just read earlier posts about how to forge your path to love.

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