Mind if I sit down?
Can I buy you around? Haven’t seen your face before, are you new in town? It’s the same old line. Oh, every time. Are you here alone? Can I take you home?
Love that song. And to those that know me, I’m in it for love.
I hate having to repeat myself, but it seems like guys don’t understand.
When you message a girl, there are things you should do and not do.
I’d like to take the time to talk about a few.
Never talk about politics. I don’t care if the latest news says that President Trump created world peace or if he was getting impeached. You never talk about politics. Just because I don’t believe what you do, doesn’t mean I’m wrong or you are, but leave it at home. People can be in relationships and not be the same political party, it’s the same with religion.
I get that I might have sounded snappy, but again, when you first start talking to someone, leave your opinions to yourself.
Read someone’s profile before messaging someone. Not to sound rude, but people don’t read anymore. It’s a skill that some of us have lost. I state on my profile that I’m only dating locals. This man did not read my profile. And he broke another rule. Why jump straight to love? That’s creepy. And you don’t write a book when messaging.
Compliments are fine, but sometimes guys come off creepy. If you want to start a conversation with someone, read their damn profile and find something in there to strike up a conversation.
The next thing, for the love of God, be honest. 500-800 pushups a day, you’ve got to be kidding me. I know some pretty buff guys that can’t do that. This guy went on to tell me he had a record of 14-1, but he never lost a fight, and then backtracked and said he never fought. Then he told me a story that he did get in a fight but didn’t hit the guy because the guy was younger than him and he was being nice. Come on, guys. You should never lie, but if you are make it believable so you can remember your own lies.
The point is that some people can be whoever they want to be online. And when people catch on they hightail it instead of just coming clean. They don’t want to meet because they know that the other person will figure it out.
Just be honest. Honesty really is the best policy. Leave politics and religion out of any conversation. And don’t be creepy. And if a girl says leave her alone, please leave her alone.
The best advice I can give you, is that when you meet the one, you will know it. You’ll feel sparks from just touching their hand, you’ll see fireworks in one kiss. You will know deep down that this is the person you are meant to be with. Don’t force it because you want to fit someone the little box of likes and dislikes you have. When it’s right, you will know.
See this, that's how it will feel like. You just have to be patient.