Stop! Collaborate and Listen.
Ice is back with a brand-new invention. I know you were singing along. You know the words. LOL. Oh, that Vanilla Ice. I digress.
So, you are not a blundering idiot on your date, let’s talk topics. The ones you can talk about and the ones you stay away from.
I don’t care if you are republican, tea party, democrat, or the actual President of the United States, stay away from politics. We live in a world right now, that that topic is very touchy. Those are things to figure out later, slow your roll sugar, it is only the first date.
Stay away from religion, also another touchy subject. I don’t care if you are Mormon, Catholic, Satan, Jesus, or the Pope himself, don’t do it. Even if you have a fun fact about Pope Francis, DO NOT DO IT.
Guys, please do not, and I am serious, do not ask her what her favorite position is or the size of her boobs. DO NOT! I can’t stress this enough. I am big chested and I get that asked a lot. I’m not a prude, but it is not appropriate for the first date.
Also, don’t tell her your d@$% size. She didn’t ask, don’t offer. What is with that? And why are you so obsessed with the size? Size doesn’t matter. And if you are trying to brag, then you are over compensating. Kisses, lol.
Things you can talk about are each other’s interests or hobbies. Do you like to hike? What music do you listen to? What are your goals in life? What do you like to do for fun? What kind of movies do you like? Who is your favorite MMA fighter? Have you ever been fishing? Have you been hunting? Yoga or Boga anyone?
Talk about your families, don’t go into too much detail. Are you close with your family? Are you an only child? Do you have any siblings? What about kids? Nothing sexier than a good dad.
Books, music, TV shows. I would love to find a guy that can talk Dr. Who with me or Marvel. I’m a nerd, a whovian and I love that stuff. I’m in love with Captain America. If there is a guy out there that is tall, dark, tattoos, handsome, kind, and a nerd-CHECKMATE!!!!! I know he's out there!!!!
Pets is always a good topic. Cat or dog person. I’m both, BTW. My dog is with my dad, keeping him company. He spoils her. If you didn’t know, it’s all about her. Brat!!!!! I love you, Savannah!!!
The other hellions, my cats, live with me. If you didn’t know, cats are the spawn of the devil. Love you, both!
KISS-Keep it simple, Stupid. You are getting to know each other. If it works and you go out on a second date, you will know things about each other, and you can start elaborating. Touchy subjects only cause friction and you don’t want that. You could lose a great guy or girl, just because you talked about how you wanted to vote for Hillary or Donald or you believe the world is flat. Yes, there are people actually believe that the world is flat. It’s not, but still. Stay away. I promise you these tips will work.